love calculator; fast way to check if his or her love messages are real
Love calculator are mechanisms, devices and means both biological, physical and psychological that is within one’s ambience or even borrowed for the determination of the actual existence of love and the depth of such existence.
From the above one can have those means or get helped by friends who have it (Borrowed). This does not really mean using a machine.
There is no argument that people might use the best love languages and love messages in their love proposal without meaning it.
For understanding of this please refer to our discussion of selfish love via this link. At such time you need the application of love calculator.
There could be machine based love calculator but just like every other computer, it is not a real love calculator because its calculation parameters are not real. They are based on garbage in garbage out.
Reason for love calculator
Trust is the kill of major relationships and all relationships need trust to survive. Most times hearts are broken when people trust without putting a check, a guide, a guard and a reasonable discernment.
People go into relationships investing their emotions on someone with hope that it yield something in return or at least remain safe in the hands they entrusted their feeling into. Such person having put up this huge emotional deposits return shattered.
So it has become a case of loving carefully and being sure of the man or the woman you are in love with these questions:
- Is he the right one?
- Is she caring?
- Can she be able to manage my weakness?
- Is it my money she wants?
- How can I be sure that he does not only need sex from me after which he will disappear?
- Can he defend me before his parents if they say no to his choice of me?
- How can I be sure he doesn’t want me because of my huge salary as a working class lady?
- Am I an economic plan for him?
- How can I avoid a repeat of what happened in my past relationship with Charles in this present one?
These and many more reasons are the major causes of why people are careful with relationships nowadays and who they love.
love calculator – more real when you do it yourself
For a more detailed love calculator analysis, a review of the types of love will help a lot.
Types of Love:
- Erotic love or Romantic Love (Eros)
- Affectionate Love (Philia)
- Obsessive Love (Mania)
- Familiar Love (Storge)
- Selfish Love (Philautia)
- Enduring Love (Pragma)
- Play Love (Ludus)
- Agape love (Unconditional / Godly Love)
love – a meaning but costly word
Erotic love or Romantic Love (Eros)
This is love that depends on sexual and sensual feelings to exist. It comes up basically when one sees one and lusts over such person.
This brings up the desire to kiss, romance and demand sex as the case may be.
This class of love is the most practiced type of love universally and it covers about 69% of the love practices my men.
Scripturally, erotic love or romantic love is a sin and it brings a reproach to someone who dies in such life without repentance.
Apart from this, it bring on people its consequence too because when sexual desires leads, the head give away for the heart to rule.
This means that reasoning and common sense will reduce and doors will then be opened to mistakes like:
- Unwanted pregnancy,
- Abuse of love,
- Taking undue advantage of one and
- Death in most cases.
The above answers the question of what are the characteristics of romantic love and from the above once can see the answer to the question can romantic love last forever?
From experience, romantic love has never lasted forever because it is built on temporary things and vanities.
It is worthy of note that romance is part of love but we promote it for couples only so that the consequences of romance which includes sex and pregnancies can be well managed.
The above is for the people that ask the question is romance part of love?
Affectionate Love or Compassionate Love (Philia)
In giving answer to the question of what is the meaning of affectionate love; we define it as a love shown when someone is showing a great sense of care to someone because of his or her desires to be with the person.
This is better defined as act of loving someone in other to occupy the love space in the person’s heart.
The one who shows this great affection is termed an affectionate person hence the provision of an answer to the question what is the meaning of affectionate person?
Many people misplace affection with love itself hence the question is affection the same as love?
Affection is a subset of love. Many call it the first step in love because it is the part of love where care is well demonstrated with inner desire to own something or someone.
Obsessive Love (Mania)
This is also known as possessive love where one’s love for another becomes a strong hold and as such; love is practiced as though the emotion one feels gives such a person the right to enforce love on the person.
This is caused by some kind of (what causes obsessive love?):
- Mental illness,
- Phobia of many fronts which include phobia for failure,
- Psychological issues and
- Wrong life philosophies.
This is type of love is very dangerous and must be avoided because it sees hurting at times as love expression. This answers the question is obsessive love dangerous?
You can know one who is exhibiting Obsessive love through the following symptoms:
- The person is unnecessarily jealous.
- The person is easily provoked by unnecessary things and minor things
- The person always searches through personal and private things of the spouse like phones.
- The person enforces one’s self always such the relationship always feel the weight of his or her presence.
- The persons feel inferior to any opposite sex that approaches the partner.
- The person in a simple term behaves like a sociopath.
This answers the question what are the symptoms of obsessive love disorder?
Familiar Love (Storge)
Without wasting much time, this is the love that exists between that exist in a family line like”
- The love of a father for his daughter
- The love of a father for his son
- The love of a mother for her daughter
- The love of a mother for her son
- Love between father and mother…and so on.
One thing one must know is that this love is more concerned on that thing which makes them family.
Selfish Love (Philautia)
This is when one uses love, love messages, love languages and love quotes to make personal gains without considering the partner.
Selfish love only thinks about oneself which makes them willing to manipulate the emotion, belief and loves base of their partners with fake love to win the moment for their selfish gains.
Love should be selfless and not selfish and the answer to the question can a selfish person love is most certainly no except when such show of love is for another selfish gain which is not love.
Selfishness or rather selfish love is not a property of a particular gender. Men can exhibit selfish love likewise women.
The main major characteristic of a selfish person is that directly or indirectly, the person makes him or herself the center of the love affair.
This answers the question what are the characteristics of a selfish person?
Enduring Love (Pragma)
Enduring love also known as pragmatic love is love that picks the green side of a relationship or love and works extensively on it in other to develop it and make it surpass the dark side in value and worth.
The green sides of interest are:
- Beautiful body structure
- Good sexual performance
- Having good cooking ability
- Having good intellectual ability
- Having exceptional integrity.
- Many other common factors of interest.
This is the type of love that exists between royal bloods which usually forms the basis of marriage between them. This is a refined selfish love…love of interest.
The above answers completely the question what does pragma love mean? and what is enduring love?
Play Love (Ludus)
This is when love is seen as chess or any other game in which the parties involved are struggling for the one with authority and upper hand in the game.
It is a love game too where all that happens in it is considered as a thing of the moment. In this type of love, what you gained is what the moment mutually offered to both parties involved.
Anyone taking the moment serious between the two parties is doing that at his or her own risk because one party usually moves on leaving the other either mutually fulfilled or crushed.
Either way it is always a play and a one night thing or crush.
This answers the question what type of love is ludus love? and what is playful love?
Agape love (Unconditional / Godly Love)
Agape love is defined as God’s love. His unconditional and sacrificial love for all mankind – both the good and the bad.
Gospel of St. john 3:16 says:
…God so loves the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believe in him shall not perish but have everlasting life.
This is not just a love but an expectation and a teaching to the entire universe on how to love.
- Loving with our best
- Loving when it pains
- Loving with the last thing we have
- Loving without expecting this back.
This answers the question does agape mean unconditional love?
This is the standard of love as any love that is not based on this is false love.
From the types of love described above, you can see that love can be Dangerous, Deceitful, Selfish and love can be unpredictable
The following are examples of the use of love calculator as described above to determine fake love.
- Investigative discover or sudden discovery with undeniable facts that your fiancé or spouse cannot make sacrifice for you.
- A natural exhibition that the person you love has been lying to you all along to benefit from you in the name of love.
- A discovery that your spouse is not who he claims he is.
- Failure to pass a simple love test…and many more.
Many other love calculator might fail you but these ones I am about to give you now will never fail you. They are three in numbers and they are sure guide and guard.
- The first love calculator guide is love less with your heart.
- The second love calculator guide is love more with your head.
- The last and the greatest of love calculator guide is love as God would love.
When you do as advised, you will never make a mistake.